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		<title>Glennda Testone Named Executive Director of the NYC LGBT Center</title>
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GLENNDA TESTONE NAMED EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF THE NYC LGBT CENTER


FIRST WOMAN TO HELM ORGANIZATION 
DYNAMIC LEADER BEGINS ROLE IN NOVEMBER

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Press Releases from The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center
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GLENNDA TESTONE NAMED EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF THE NYC LGBT CENTER
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FIRST WOMAN TO HELM ORGANIZATION <br />
DYNAMIC LEADER BEGINS ROLE IN NOVEMBER
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		<title>Emerald City Classic softball tourney announces champions</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 18:43:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ by Shaun Knittel &#8211; SGN Staff Writer
Over the July 4 weekend, the Emerald City Softball Association (ECSA) hosted the 2010 Emerald City Classic &#8211; a Gay softball tournament consisting of 44 teams (18 from out of state) and over 600 players.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> by Shaun Knittel &#8211; SGN Staff Writer</p>
<p>Over the July 4 weekend, the Emerald City Softball Association (ECSA) hosted the 2010 Emerald City Classic &#8211; a Gay softball tournament consisting of 44 teams (18 from out of state) and over 600 players.</p>
<p>According to the tournament&#8217;s officials, ECSA Open Division commissioner Jeff Card and tournament director Frank Pi<br />
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		<title>Federal judge strikes down DOMA</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 18:43:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Massachusetts judge finds key section based on &#8216;irrational prejudice&#8217; by Mike Andrew &#8211; SGN Staff Writer
In two stunning decisions on July 8, Federal Judge Joseph Tauro of the District of Massachusetts ruled that a key section of the federal DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act) is unconstitutional.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> Massachusetts judge finds key section based on &#8216;irrational prejudice&#8217; by Mike Andrew &#8211; SGN Staff Writer</p>
<p>In two stunning decisions on July 8, Federal Judge Joseph Tauro of the District of Massachusetts ruled that a key section of the federal DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act) is unconstitutional.</p>
<p>In Gill v. Office of Personnel Management, Tauro ruled tha<br />
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		<title>Teen fashion trend? The gay best friend</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 18:43:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Teen Vogue” [1] recently published an online article about the latest trend in high school fashion: the gay best friend (GBF).  According to the article, the once-bullied gay high school boy is currently in high demand among the popular girls.
&#8220;A few years ago, all the popular, pretty girls were walking hand in hand with a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“Teen Vogue” [1] recently published an online article about the latest trend in high school fashion: the gay best friend (GBF).  According to the article, the once-bullied gay high school boy is currently in high demand among the popular girls.</p>
<p>&#8220;A few years ago, all the popular, pretty girls were walking hand in hand with a preppy jock,&#8221; one high school student says. &#8220;Now you&#8217;ll see them in hallways with a Mulberry bag on one arm and a Johnny Weir look-alike on the other.&#8221;</p>
<p>Influenced by the media’s quick uptake of the gay guy/straight girl coupling—for instance, Will and Grace, Carrie Bradshaw and Stanford or even Sharpay and Ryan from “High School Musical”—it seems teenage girls are &#8220;collecting&#8221; fashion-forward gay boys, the magazine says.  Unfortunately, the magazine portrays the trend as something that positions the boys as an accessory, like a pair of Uggs—in one season and out the next—instead of as people with the respect and individuality they deserve.</p>
<p>However, Teen Vogue acknowledges that the pairing  may be less competitive and more honest then friendships between two girls.</p>
<p>And some of the teens interviewed who were in GBF relationship before the hype started are themselves concerned with the relationships being treated as a trivial fad. One teen said, &#8220;It&#8217;s wonderful that society and the media have become so accepting, but that culture should never be exploited or treated like a passing trend. People should not be defined by characteristics like their sexuality.&#8221;</p>
<p>Amen.</p>
<p>[1] http://www.teenvogue.com/connect/blogs/soundoff/2010/07/gbf-gay-best-friend.html<br />
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		<title>New Gay Mystery Skewers Tourist Town Personalities</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 18:43:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cherokee McGhee Publishing announces the release of Greg Lilly’s newest Derek Mason Mystery – Scalping the Red Rocks.  Lilly describes it as “a story of greed, indulgence, desire, and the bitch Karma.”  This is the second in the gay mystery series, following Fingering the Family Jewels.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cherokee McGhee Publishing announces the release of Greg Lilly’s newest Derek Mason Mystery – Scalping the Red Rocks.  Lilly describes it as “a story of greed, indulgence, desire, and the bitch Karma.”  This is the second in the gay mystery series, following Fingering the Family Jewels.</p>
<p>The novel is set in Sedona, Arizona, one of the top tourist destinations in the United States.  Sedona is known for the breathtaking natural beauty of the red rocks; its vibrant arts community; the rich Native American, pioneer, and western movie culture; a variety of hiking trails, Jeep tours, and journeys into the New Age movement; all topped with world-class resorts and restaurants.  These unique elements contribute to the lively real estate market and spur the story’s beginning&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>New York State Mom of Gay Teen Removed From High School in 2005 Heads To Court of Appeals</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 18:42:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A mother who removed her gay teen from North Tonawanda high school after he was bullied and had his life threatened, was subsequently charged with educational neglect in 2007,  and  has been unable to find justice within the New York Court system.  New York State Supreme Court, Appellate Division, Fourth Department declined [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A mother who removed her gay teen from North Tonawanda high school after he was bullied and had his life threatened, was subsequently charged with educational neglect in 2007,  and  has been unable to find justice within the New York Court system.  New York State Supreme Court, Appellate Division, Fourth Department declined responsibility and accountability once again when it decided upon The Matter of Rhonda Mangus v Niagara County Department of Social Services and New York State Office of Children and Family Services.. Read More&#8230;<br />
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		<title>Hawaii governor vetoes civil union bill</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 18:42:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ by Rex Wockner &#8211; SGN Contributing Writer
Hawaii Gov. Linda Lingle vetoed a civil-union bill July 6 that would have granted same-sex couples all the rights, benefits, responsibilities, and obligations of marriage under a different name.
&#8220;I have been open and consistent in my opposition to same-gender marriage and find that House Bill 444 is essentiall
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> by Rex Wockner &#8211; SGN Contributing Writer</p>
<p>Hawaii Gov. Linda Lingle vetoed a civil-union bill July 6 that would have granted same-sex couples all the rights, benefits, responsibilities, and obligations of marriage under a different name.</p>
<p>&#8220;I have been open and consistent in my opposition to same-gender marriage and find that House Bill 444 is essentiall<br />
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		<title>Hate Crime Against the LGBT Community Center</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 18:42:49 +0000</pubDate>
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NEW YORK, NY, APRIL 14, 2010–Statement from the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center Executive Director, Glennda Testone: &#34;This morning our building staff arrived and discovered a burned rainbow flag hanging on one of the poster display cases outside our building. We called the NYPD, and they immediately dispatched detectives from the hate crimes [...]]]></description>
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<img src="/files/imce/images/burnedflag.jpg" alt="Burned Flag" title="Burned Flag" align="right" height="297" width="397" />NEW YORK, NY, APRIL 14, 2010–Statement from the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center Executive Director, Glennda Testone: &quot;This morning our building staff arrived and discovered a burned rainbow flag hanging on one of the poster display cases outside our building. We called the NYPD, and they immediately dispatched detectives from the hate crimes unit and our local precinct. They are currently investigating the crime.&quot;</p>
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		<title>Boyfriend 101: A Gay Guy&#8217;s Guide to Dating, Romance, and Finding True Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 18:42:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Boyfriend 101: A Gay Guy&#8217;s Guide to Dating, Romance, and Finding True Love

You’ve done the bar thing. You’ve let your best friend set you up. You’ve even logged on to a gay dating website. But the man of your dreams is still out there, just waiting for you to find him. What’s a gay guy [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Boyfriend-101-Dating-Romance-Finding/dp/0812992199%3FSubscriptionId%3DAKIAI54QXYF27ZS7KKWQ%26tag%3Dnanosector-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D0812992199" rel="nofollow">Boyfriend 101: A Gay Guy&#8217;s Guide to Dating, Romance, and Finding True Love</a></h3>
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<p>You’ve done the bar thing. You’ve let your best friend set you up. You’ve even logged on to a gay dating website. But the man of your dreams is still out there, just waiting for you to find him. What’s a gay guy to do? Look no further than this book.</p>
<p>Whether you’re new to the dating scene or just wanting a refresher course, in Boyfriend 101 you’ll find an abundance of practical tips for meeting the right man (and avoiding the wrong ones) and keeping him (and you) interested for the long term. Topics include:</p>
<p>•Deciding what you need versus what you want in a boyfriend<br />•Icebreakers that actually work<br />•Expanding your social network<br />•The best places to meet men<br />•Writing a hot personal ad or online profile <br />•First-date protocols (or, Waiting until after the third date to have sex)<br />•Discussing HIV and negotiating safe sex<br />•Maintaining a healthy body image<br />•Overcoming fear of abandonment<br />•Creating healthy lines of communication with your boyfriend</p>
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		<title>The Story of a Marriage: A Novel</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Story of a Marriage: A Novel

A Today Show Summer Reads PickA Washington Post Book of the Year&#8220;We think we know the ones we love.&#8221; So Pearlie Cook begins her indirect, and devastating exploration of the mystery at the heart of every relationship&#8211;how we can ever truly know another person. It is 1953 and Pearlie, [...]]]></description>
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<p><DIV><DIV><P><B><I>A </I></B><B>Today Show </B><B><I>Summer Reads Pick</I></B></P><P><B>A <I>Washington Post </I>Book of the Year<BR></B><BR>&#8220;We think we know the ones we love.&#8221; So Pearlie Cook begins her indirect, and devastating exploration of the mystery at the heart of every relationship&#8211;how we can ever truly know another person. <BR></P><P>It is 1953 and Pearlie, a dutiful young housewife, finds herself living in the Sunset District in San Francisco, caring not only for her husband&#8217;s fragile health, but also for her son, who is afflicted with polio. Then, one Saturday morning, a stranger appears on her doorstep, and everything changes. Lyrical, and surprising, <I>The Story of a Marriage</I> is, in the words of Khaled Housseini, &#8220;a book about love, and it is a marvel to watch Greer probe the mysteries of love to such devastating effect.&#8221;</P></DIV></DIV>                      <DIV><DIV><B>Andrew Sean Greer</B> is the bestselling author of <I>The Confessions of Max Tivoli</I>, the story collection <I>How It Was for Me</I>, and the novel <I>The Path of Minor Planets</I>. He lives in San Francisco, California.</DIV></DIV>                                <DIV><DIV><B><DIV>Longlisted for the International IMPAC Literary Award</DIV>A <I>Financial Times</I> Best Book of the Year</B></DIV><DIV><B>A <I>San Francisco Chronicle</I> Best Book of the Year<BR><BR></B>&#8220;We think we know the ones we love.&#8221; So Pearlie Cook begins her indirect and devastating exploration of the mystery at the heart of every relationship?how we can ever truly know another person.<BR><BR>It is 1953 and Pearlie, a dutiful young housewife, lives in the Sunset district of San Francisco, caring not only for her older husband in his fragile health but also for her son, who is afflicted with polio. Then, on a Saturday morning, a stranger comes to her doorstep and offers her 0,000 if she will leave her marriage, her family, and her life behind. All the certainties by which Pearlie has lived are thrown into doubt. For six months in 1953, young Pearlie Cook struggles to understand the world around her, most especially her husband, Holland.<BR><BR>Pearlie’s story is a meditation not only on love but also on the effects of war?with one war just over and another one in Korea coming to a close. Set in a climate of fear and repression?political, sexual, and racial?<I>The Story of a Marriage</I> portrays three people trapped by the confines of their era, and the desperate measures they are prepared to take to escape it. Lyrical and surprising, <I>The Story of a Marriage</I> looks back at a period that we tend to misremember as one of innocence and simplicity.</DIV></DIV>                                                              <DIV><DIV><P>&#8220;<I>The Story of a Marriage</I> is just that, the chronicle of one marriage, closely and elegantly examined . . . a plot that deepens as surprises explode unexpectedly and terrifyingly . . . It&#8217;s thoughtful, complex and exquisitely written.&#8221;?<B>Carolyn See, <I>The Washington Post<BR><BR></I></B>&#8220;A timeless story of conflicting loyalties, <I>The Story of a Marriage</I> has roots in the fiction of Poe&#8217;s era, but, fittingly enough, its plot is firmly anchored in the vividly described America of the early 1950s?a seemingly serene era whose submerged social, racial and political tensions would soon create their own disruptions and upheavals.&#8221;?<B>Maggie Scarf, <I>The New York Times Book Review<BR><BR></I></B>&#8220;From the beginning of this inspired, lyrical novel, the reader is pulled along by the attentive voice of Pearlie, a young African-American woman who travels west to San Francisco in search of a better life after growing up in a rural Kentucky town . . . Mr. Greer&#8217;s considerable gifts as a storyteller ascend to the heights of masters like Marilynne Robinson and William Trevor. In the hands of a lesser writer this narrative might have stumbled into a literary derivation of Annie Proulx&#8217;s now famous short story &#8216;Brokeback Mountain.&#8217; But instead Mr. Greer creates a moving story that is all his own via an intimate view of Pearlie&#8217;s world, which has spun off its axis . . . Mr. Greer seamlessly choreographs an intricate narrative that speaks authentically to the longings and desires of his characters.&#8221;?<B>S. Kirk Walsh, <I>The New York Times<BR><BR></I></B>&#8220;&#8216;We think we know the ones we love,&#8217; begins Andrew Sean Greer&#8217;s bewitching third novel, <I>The Story of a Marriage</I>, a book whose linguistic prowess and raw storytelling power is almost disruptive to the reader. It&#8217;s too good to put down and yet each passage is also too good to leave behind . . . Greer&#8217;s short novel feels admirably worked over?like a long-simmered sauce. He near-brilliantly juxtaposes the nuances of love, sexual awakening and the sometimes suffocating sacrifices marriage demands against broader cultural observations about political turmoil, the physical and emotional effects of war, sexual repression and racism . . . His book is a perfect mix of what we seek from literature?captivating storytelling; a complex, finely tuned structure; stunning language; and astute observations about both the mundane intricacies of everyday relationships and society as a whole. Indeed, <I>The Story of a Marriage</I> is as much a war story as it is a love story.&#8221;?<B>Deborah Vankin, <I>Los Angeles</I><I> Times Book Review<BR><BR></I></B>&#8220;The cleverest aspect of <I>The Story of a Marriage</I> is the way Greer uses the little dramas of private individuals to enact and embody the abstract political and social concerns of the country at large. In Greer&#8217;s novel, the lack of understanding between individuals, and our failure to grasp that very lack of understanding?the idea that, as Pearlie states more than once, ?We think we know the ones we love’?is made to stand for the lack of understanding between different communities within American society. The idea that ?what we love turns out to be a poor translation,’ for instance, is later brought back in a very different and much broader context . . . <I>The Story of a Marriage</I> is the story of an entire country of people who cannot speak to or hear one another. Pearlie&#8217;s husband, Holland, remains an enigma not only to her but also to the reader. Indeed, he rarely appears in the book, and when he is onstage, he does little. One comes to believe that he is one of those people whose presence is so minimal that one is never certain whether he is even in the room. He is, in a sense, the center of the book, the one whose actions set everything in motion, yet we never witness those actions directly and instead only hear about them, and the center feels like a hollow void. And Pearlie, too, seems somehow absent, as if, despite her role as first-person narrator, her real conversation with herself is taking place on a level to which we have no real access. (Though then again, perhaps it is Pearlie herself who has no access to her real thoughts and feelings.) . . . Greer&#8217;s focus in this novel is on those members of that generation who stayed on these shores, many of whom in their various ways suffered tremendously, sufferings that, in keeping with the book&#8217;s overall theme, frequently proved incomprehensible to others. Wives and girlfriends, mothers and fathers, draft dodgers, conscientious objectors (referred to in the slang of the day as &#8216;conchies&#8217;), all of these had their own particular stories of misery, heartbreak, isolation and occasionally madness. But these stories were often too painful, too terrible to tell. And even when their bearers managed to find the strength of will to articulate them, what they all too often found was that there was no one who would listen.&#8221;?<B>Troy Jollimore, <I>San Francisco Chronicle<BR><BR></I></B>&#8220;You could say that Andrew Sean Greer is back at it again, cleverly telling tales with his elegant sleight-of-hand. His last novel, <I>The Confessions of Max Tivoli</I>, set in early 20th century San Francisco, chronicled the adventures of said Max, who at birth resembles an old man but with each passing year grows younger in appearance, upending life-cycle assumptions and limitations. Greer&#8217;s new novel, <I>The Story of a Marriage</I>, doesn&#8217;t turn on a series of fantastic, suspension-of-belief plot points, but the unadorned title belies the startling narrative land mines Greer has seeded within the novel . . . Not quite 200 pages, the novel nonetheless has grand, sweeping ambitions, taking on war, race, sexual orientation, patriotism, the shifting notion of what it is to be an American. Holland&#8217;s past and Pearlie&#8217;s future are backdropped by a country still set off-balance by the atmosphere of war?still haunted by World War II, now buffeted by one in Korea. But it is the book&#8217;s surprise turns that create the biggest temblors?not just in the lives on the page but also within the reader&#8217;s minds . . . The book&#8217;s secrets are the true heart of the matter?like the secrets we keep in life in order, we think, to better manage it. They&#8217;re so important that in the advanced reader&#8217;s copy, Greer&#8217;s editor, Frances Coady, included a note that is a &#8216;plea&#8217; not to &#8216;reveal its secrets to those readers coming after you.&#8217;&#8221;?<B>Lynell George, <I>Los Angeles</I><I> Times<BR><BR></I></B>&#8220;Greer is a gifted writer bent on showing that, between the upheaval of World War II and the activism of the 1960s, the political and social issues stirred up in those decades didn&#8217;t disappear. They were just put out of view while the country took a breath. <I>The Story of a Marriage</I> is a neat little package about one couple that was forced to face them.&#8221;?<B>Ellen Emry Heltzel, <I>The Seattle Times<BR><BR></I></B>&#8220;<I>The Story of a Marriage</I> is firmly rooted in its period . . . The author also infuses the novel with a deep understanding about the fallibility of memory and perception, themes that make it seem timeless. Like most people, these characters have blind spots, and Greer portrays them with stunning focus.&#8221;?<B>Sara Eckel, <I>Time Out New York<BR><BR></I></B>&#8220;<I>The Story of a Marriage</I> asks in its quiet way what happens when an outsider f&#8230;</div>
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